Since girls frequently give off mixed signals, many guys often wonder if girls like them or not. The answer to that question is not always straightforward, although a girl will usually give off a number of signals which may give you a clue as to whether she likes you or not.
These signals may often be subtle, so you’ll need to pay attention if you want to know if she likes you. A girl doesn’t usually come right out and say she likes you. But if she does like you, she’ll definitely want you to be aware that she does.
6 SIGNS TO CHECK IF SHE LIKES YOU OR NOT
1. SHE’S CHECKING YOU OUT
When considering if she likes you or not, take a look at whether she’s checking you out. Sometimes a girl will make a short burst of eye contact once or maybe twice but that doesn’t constitute checking you out.
She may simply be looking around. But if she gives you an extended stare and lets her eyes wander over your body, she’s probably checking you out. If she looks from your eyes, scans your body and then looks back to your eyes, there’s a definite chance she’s attracted to you on some level.
2. SHE’S CHECKING HER REFLECTION
If you’re out on a date and you notice she’s preening herself or checking her reflection when she can, she’s probably not doing this due to her vanity but more so because she likes you and wants you to like her.
Her appearance means a lot to her and for this reason, you’ll get some serious points and a great head start on a date if you tell her how nice she looks when you pick her up.
3. SHE LISTENS TO WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY
Many guys while on a date often wonder, when they notice that the girl is intently listening to them without really saying much. If she’s paying attention to you and not interrupting, it’s because she’s interested to know what you have to say.
One obvious way to tell if she likes you is when later on during the date, on your next date or during a telephone call the next day she asks you specific questions related to what you’ve told her previously. This means she remembered and she likes you. She made an effort to remember because she’s interested in you.
4. SHE MAKES PLAYFUL JOKES
If a girl makes playful jokes at your expense with a smile, there’s a very good chance this is her way of lightening the mood and having some fun with you. She’s not being rude, she’s most probably kidding around and you don’t do this with people unless you like them.
5. SHE WANTS TO KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE
While pondering the idea if she likes you or not, consider her general interest level in you. Is she always asking you questions and do some of those questions go beyond that of a casual acquaintance?
By this I mean, does she ask you about your family, your work, what you like to do with your spare time or maybe she even asks you about your childhood or what you were like in school? If she asks you questions of a more personal nature, there’s no need to wonder, as it’s blatantly obvious she does and she wants to get to know you better.
6. SHE TOUCHES YOU
Although some guys may still not be sure, even after witnessing all the above signals, the ultimate signal that she really likes you is when she touches you. It doesn’t matter what the nature of the touch is, if she touches you on the hand, arm, leg or anywhere at all on your body, she’s not doing it by accident.
A girl is very aware of herself and what she touches. If she gently touches you on the arm, sits up close to you in the taxi or train or even simply rests her arm in your personal space while you’re having dinner, this is the surest sign you’ll ever get that she likes you. If she happens to kiss you, well what more can I say?
There shall never be a need to ask a girl if she likes you since she’ll give off multiple signals while you’re dating that’ll answer your primary question, does she like me? If you notice any or all of the above signals the ball is in your court and then it’s up to you to reciprocate and let her know that you like her too.