Statistically, you are more likely to be cheated on now than ever. Indiana University studied wives cheating on their husbands in the 1990s and 2011. It found more women admitted to cheating on their husbands today than admitted in the 1990s.
The fact is, love doesn’t conquer all. Sometimes these things happen. But often they do not happen unexpectedly, and there are some telltale signs that trouble is afoot and she may be finding love somewhere else.
FIND OUT IF SHE MIGHT BE CHEATING ON YOU WITH THESE TIPS
SHE IS MORE INTERESTED IN HER PHONE
It doesn’t necessarily mean that she is talking to the other man, but if she is more interested in staring at her Facebook feed than conversing with you over dinner, she may not be fully invested in the relationship. If she isn’t fully invested, she might be cheating, or on the verge of it.
SHE SUDDENLY PUTS A LOT MORE EFFORT INTO HER APPEARANCE
If she is suddenly buying nice clothes, spending hours on her hair and makeup, and has a newfound interest in getting into shape, it might mean that she is dressing up for someone else. Particularly if she is putting the effort in for mundane tasks, like going to the store or meeting friends for a coffee.
SHE STARTS USING NEW EXPRESSIONS
We have all done it. We hang around someone for a long period of time and start to involuntarily pick up the way they speak. It might be an unintentional giveaway that she is spending a lot of time with someone else, who uses different language, phrases, and expressions to you. If she hasn’t suddenly found a new best friend, there might be another man in her life.
SHE STOPS TELLING YOU ABOUT HER DAY
If she comes home from work, has had a bad day, but you don’t hear about it straight away, chances are she has already received encouragement from someone else. We all want someone to listen to us when we share details about our life, no matter how small. If she stops feeling the need to give you those details, it could be because she has someone else to share them with.
SEX FALLS OFF A CLIFF
When you have been with someone a while, you often fall into a pattern. Whether you have sex five times a week, or once a week, there is usually a pattern to it. If this suddenly decreases with little explanation, or she seems totally uninterested, there might be something afoot.
SHE IS DRASTICALLY MORE OR DRASTICALLY LESS AFFECTIONATE
An affair affects everyone differently, but it does affect everyone. It might make her withdrawn as distant as she tries to pull away from you, or it might make her more affectionate and spark a renewed romantic interest in you. If there is suddenly a change in the level of affection she shows you, it might be worth investigating further into the reasons why.
SHE ACCUSES YOU OF CHEATING
Some people have a natural instinct to offset their own feeling of guilt by projecting it onto others. By accusing you of the very thing she is doing, she creates an illusion that she values loyalty in the relationship above all else, thereby throwing you off the trail. If she constantly accuses you with no evidence or reason, it may be because she herself is cheating.
All of these subtle signs can be picked up by paying a little more attention to her actions and listening to her a little more carefully. If you do this anyway, then she will likely have less reason to cheat in the first place. Good luck out there gents.